Not every person on this planet is kind, caring, and sympathetic. Many bad habits and characteristics can make a person unattractive, irritating and unlikeable.
This article will write about some of these terrible characteristics and if you find you possess some of them – try to change yourself. That way you will find many more friends who will want to be around you.
1. You are an egoist
You can be an egoist without being aware of it. These people concentrate only on themselves, talk about themselves and usually don’t care about other people’s opinions. These people believe they are the only ones that are important.
2. Focusing on outer beauty and neglecting what’s inside
People who think the physical appearance matters the most, don’t believe the real beauty comes from the heart, body and soul. If you are among these people, take a look in the mirror and see what is inside you and you might see an ugly person. Change the way of thinking and become a better person for everyone.
3. A competitive person
You are an unattractive person if you compete with others all the time. Start caring more about your friends and don’t ruin their moment. You don’t have to be the best all the time.
4. You consider your friends enemies
You should not think of your friends as enemies, but as allies. Nobody would like to be your friend if you are in fights with your friends and stab them after they turn their back.
5. You question your importance to others
If you constantly question why other people don’t see you as important as you think they should, you are not a person who others would like to be nearby. It is not that important if your friends went somewhere without you. And, it does not mean you should stop your friendship with them.
6. Being bossy
You should not be the person who always makes decisions and has to be in charge. All friends, including you should be the same. They won’t think of you as a friend if you always try to control other people’s actions.
7. Dishonest person
It is important to be an honest person if you want to be likeable. Nobody likes a person who is dishonest and a liar.
8. You are rude
If you are impolite, offensive and embarrass your friends by being rude in public, try to change yourself because you might end up alone. You may hear something you don’t agree with or see something you didn’t want to see, but in those moments it is better not to make a scene because that way everyone will see your awful behavior, without understanding how you feel.
9. Unreliable and dependent person
Do you help your friends when you need them? Or you are the type of friend who is always busy when needed, but always in need? Being a person who nobody can count on is a bad characteristic and an unattractive quality in friendships.
10. Always negative
Being pessimistic can never help since it is not an attractive quality. If you act like this, it is time to stop seeing things negatively. If your day is bad, you would least want to meet with a friend who puts things down instead cheering you up.